From strategist and facilitator Caitlin Mayance,
Hey brands, why you still sending out storyless emails in 2026? You have direct access to a personal inbox – no algorithmic nonsense – and you’re leading with a promo or tiny lil ad?! Come on
When the bare minimum is copy and pasting your pre-existing marketing materials and hitting send to ALL is your strategy, expect bare minimum results.
Some of the most fascinating stories are being told on rented platforms, while email newsletters are filled with recycled social media images and [$NAME] placeholders.

Abandoned Mac, 2007 Doing the work is hard, so why do it alone? We had some great discussions this week on our Escape Pod Zoom calls:
- Building in-person communities in new towns through volunteer work.
- My talk with artist David Speed about small scale IRL events, starting a podcast (and more).
- The weaver’s handshake?!
- Unstructured time at conferences can be more valuable than the speakers.
- Inviting authors onto a podcast despite being nervousness about it!
- Do podcasts really need to have a video element?
- “How to make your website your hub with AI taking traffic away from us little people?”
- Someone said out of 50 podcasts they subscribed to, four were active a year later
Can’t make the calls, but wanna be involved? Join our tiny email circles, made up of Social Media Escape Club members! Easy reply-all email conversations with great people. Reply to this email if you wanna join.
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Screenshot From Lincoln Michel’s “Surf’s Up in Slop City,”
If the old institutions are crumbling, that is also the perfect time to build new ones. I’m not saying this is easy. But, what choice do we have?
This is response to the Washington Post gutting their book coverage.
Building our own networks and platforms to promote books, or music, or art is hard, as mentioned above, but who else is gonna do it? And if we don’t, the vacuum will be filled by the next venture back techbro operation, then we’re right back to where we started.
Start a website around something you love. A blog. Buy a domain name (affiliate link). Reach out to my buddy Tom to set up a WordPress site.
Write about the things you love in the way only you can. Don’t worry about getting traffic yet. Update the site every day. Every week. Month after month.
When people discover you, it’ll feel like finding a magical bookstore down a moss-covered alley with string lights, the opposite of a flashy ‘content hub.’
Artist David Speed from today’s Substack Live:
“From all of these brilliant minds that I’ve had on (the podcast), the overwhelming thing that comes through is just keep making stuff. Because through the things that you will make, you will process the world around you. You will learn what resonates with people and what doesn’t. You’ll find your niche. You’ll find your groove. You’ll find your people. And you’ll get better at what you do. So just keep making stuff. I think make is the most important word that we have. And it is my mission on this planet to encourage people to make stuff. Make as many things as you can. Leave behind a legacy of beautiful things that you’ve made. Make, make, make.”
Listen to the full interview to hear us talk about:
- How 3K email subscribers is mightier than 160,000 Instagram followers
- Small in-person events build trust
- David’s monthly free studio paint sessions in London
- Start a podcast (and listen to David’s Creative Rebels Podcast)
- Plant flags everywhere
- AI slop makes people want to get back to real human-created work
According to Ken Klippenstein, “the government is building a sociological profile of political discontent.”
Homeland security field agents are scouring the social media site Reddit, monitoring the communications of law-abiding Americans critical of the agency.
And if they’re scouring sites like Reddit, you know damn well they’re scouring Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and everywhere else.
Raziq Rauf from Running Sucks wrote about how some running clubs are choosing to not post about their events on social media because they don’t want to tip off ICE.
“I learned about all these run clubs from Instagram, but we’re doing a new thing where if you wanna get with South Central Run Club, you have to be in our Signal chat. South Central deals with hyper-policing. Most of our runners are Black and brown and you never know when ICE is gonna pull up. Instead of broadcasting our runs and making us vulnerable to surveillance, we stopped putting it on Instagram to make people feel safer to come and hang out.“
Exercising our legal right to free speech and protest (or just run with our friends) is hard without some of these digital tools, especially when those tools are owned by the very forces we oppose, but as Priya Parker says, “connection is the antidote to fascism.”
Jazmin Jenay started HATTIE MAGAZINE, a “Black TV & Film PRINT magazine because I want generations after us to know who we are, and what we created beyond the digital timeline.”
“After working as a social media manager for the past few years I became extremely digitally fatigued but I couldn’t force myself to log out. The next casting, next connection, next opportunity most likely rested in me scrolling my thumb on social media. That left me wondering — what will they know of us if the apps shut down tomorrow? We need something that can be held, a physical record of our brilliance.”
Wow, this line: “what will they know of us if the apps shut down tomorrow?”
This is why we build websites, start magazines, and build creative communities. Yes, setting up a website is hard, but so is starting a magazine! We do these hard things because they are worth doing.
As Casey Barber said in a recent Escape Pod call, having a website is, “an investment in your sovereignty, and your autonomy, and your you-ness, honestly.”
This question came up on a recent live stream: “how to make your website your hub with AI taking traffic away from us little people?”
For the last 15 years we’ve been putting our best work on every other platform than our own. It’s no wonder that people don’t think to look up our websites, right?
So let’s start.
Start putting your best work on your website. Make it the one source of truth on the entire internet.
If you’re still on social media, tell people to visit your website (but manage expectations). Put a link in your newsletter. Put it on a flyer with a QR code.
Then get YOUR biggest fans on your email list, or tell them to follow via RSS, so you’re reaching them directly regardless of what AI does with your public content on a search engine.
Get YOUR people used to the idea of looking up YOUR website, because even though AI might scrape your work, it can’t build and nurture relationships. It can’t inspire them to keep coming back for more. That’s your job.
You think if you leave social media you’ll lose community and clients, right?
Well, what happens if you get locked out of your account? Or the platform shuts down?
You’d definitely lose all your community and clients then, right?!
So are you really comfortable leaving all of those people in the hands of the techbro industrial complex?
What’s the preventative action you could take today to ensure you can reach your people?
Consider that most of your potential clients are in their inbox all day.
And you could email those potential clients while everyone else is making dance videos or writing 1000 word “thought leader” posts on LinkedIn.Perhaps the question isn’t “what if I lose people by leaving social media?”
The question becomes, “how can I future-proof my community and clients WITHOUT social media?”What could this future-proofing strategy look like for you?

I help creative people quit social media, promote their work in sustainable ways, and rethink how a website and newsletter can work together. Find out more here. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
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