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Get off social media if it makes you feel bad.

If social media is killing your creativity, stealing hours of your day (and night), making your mind race, bringing up feelings of “compare and despair,” making you second-guess your work, stealing joy, robbing you of sleep, leaving you depleted, disrupting your relationships, your work, and your art, then maybe it’s time to develop a social media escape plan.

Is being a shell of yourself worth a few likes or sales?

“I’m deleting most of my social media accounts (some of which I’ve had for over a decade) because I noticed they were repeatedly hurting me. And I was letting them,” writes S. Grohowski

Worry less about being “forgotten,” and envision a future when you re-find yourself.

“After two months away from (social media), I feel much less distracted and more grounded, present, and focused on what matters most.,” writes Ashley Neese

Trust that the universe will help you get your work in front of the right people without making dance videos or keeping up with the latest trending audio.

“How much hustle do you have to put in before you decide it isn’t worth the grind? There comes a point in every phase of business when you realize that some things simply don’t work—for us, our businesses, and our mental health,” writes 

Jamie R Cox in ‘Am I The Girl Who Deleted Instagram?’

You’re reading this right now, aren’t you? How could that happen if I didn’t post about it on social media?

One of my favorite albums of the last year was introduced to me from an old friend via email.

I wrote about the anniversary of the passing of an old friend in NYC. Their former neighbor found my blog post when they Googled their name. Read that again, friend – they found my blog post. From a search engine. In 2024.

“Lately I’ve been considering leaving (social media) and not looking back, and calling it what it is—an addiction (that’s probably the hardest part as someone who struggles with addiction). It literally adds nothing to my life, other than fleeting moments of “connection” with friends who probably wouldn’t contact me if it weren’t for the 30 second reels,” writes 

Kaitlyn Ramsay

If you don’t want to go to networking events, or play shows in noisy bars, or set up at busy markets, or start a YouTube channel or a podcast, then don’t. Just because other folks are doing it, doesn’t mean you have to follow their lead.

Set your own path, make your own luck, and if social media makes you sick, start dreaming of a life without it.

I’ve been talking to a lot of you about setting up newsletters, and the biggest challenge seems always to be, “How do I get my followers on Instagram to subscribe to my Substack?”

I’ve said before that social media is like the food court at the mall.

When you set up shop at the mall, yes, you’ll have lots of foot traffic, but you’re also bound by the rules of the mall – opening hours, delivery schedules, branding, etc.

But look at you – your food stand built quite a following and you expanded.

You set up shop in a nice downtown space – you set the hours, the vibes, the branding, and the music that plays while serving your customers.

Now, as a business owner like that, how much time will you spend at the mall?

Sure, some of your old customers are there, but you’ve probably got a handful of customers coming into your shop daily, right?

You could return to the food court and hand out some flyers – “Hey, visit us downtown!”

But… you’ve got a business to run. You’ve got customers!

So, to get away from the restaurant analogy – you’ve got an email list. You might have 25 people on your list. You might have 250, 1000, or 5000.

Sure, many people clicked FOLLOW on Instagram, but how much effort are you willing to invest to get them to your website?

People downloaded Instagram to be on Instagram.

Yes, we discover people, brands, art, and music from Instagram, but many of us haven’t bookmarked every website or subscribed to every email list (most folks on Instagram don’t even have email lists).

If you genuinely want to escape social media, the best course of action is to make some “WE MOVED” signs and schedule them for your various social media platforms.

Or, you could do what I did this past week and post twice on Instagram and LinkedIn.

Let’s see how that worked out.

I got 320 views total on LinkedIn (two posts), and 222 views on Instagram.

As you can see above, from my 542 views I got 14 people (users) to visit Social Media Escape Club, which is a 2.5% conversion rate.

But I fought for those clicks – I DM’d almost everyone who LIKED the IG stories, and gave them a link to the post I was promoting.

The result: two new subscribers (and one upgraded to a paid subscription).

It’s like I say, the vault is still open.

We can go back to the food court as often as we want, but we can only snag people a few people each time to visit.

Your results will vary, since I write about newsletters, and you probably do something a lot cooler than what I’m doing.

So maybe you get 4-6 new subscribers a week doing all that?

Do that for three months, and you might have 60 new subscribers.

Mind you, this is just one of the many ways to get the attention of your followers on a social media platform.

You can make dance videos and point at words and use trending audio…

Or you can make the best damn content for your existing subscribers.

Update your website. Send a weekly newsletter.

And avoid the mall this weekend if you can.

Happy Holidays, friends.

To get us started, “social media triggers children to dislike their own bodies,” this according to a study over at The Guardian.

Also, Meta is being fined by the EU for “forcing users to accept targeted ads.” Oh, and “Meta’s New Vision Of The Future Doesn’t Mention The Metaverse Even Once.”

Is Facebook heading towards another pivot? Shocking!

“Influencers discovered they could earn tens of thousands of dollars on the platform by making simple reaction videos,” writes the New Yorker.

“As long as fifteen minutes a day allows them to forgo full-time jobs and focus on music, they will continue to pump out face-filter videos.

“I do it every day to make sure I can pay my rent, dude,” Koch said.

To make you feel even worse, please read ‘30 ways influencers cheated their way to millions of dollars,” with lots of screenshots and info on “how Twitch streamers fake their numbers,” “fake Instagram engagement,” and more.

Yes, I’m all about leaving social media, but while we’re there we need to maximize our efforts to get folks to visit our sites and subscribe to our newsletters.

When Sarah Palmyra (with her 896.5K followers on TikTok) was asked how to engage with her audience, she offered this bit of advice:

“Stories are a really great way to engage with people. I just ask my audience questions, what do you wanna see next? What do you think about this? What do you like about this? And then that’s when I really check my direct messages and see who is saying what. And I have those real conversations just one-on-one.”

I’ll leave you with this:

For posts published by Instagram business accounts, the average engagement rate almost doubled in the past year and is up to 1.94%. Carousel posts still have the highest engagement rate (3.15%), while photo posts have the lowest average engagement rate (1.18%).

If the average engagement rate on Instagram is around 2%, imagine how low the actual click rate is for the “link in bio” game we’re all playing?!

Gee, it’s no wonder that we’re not seeing huge traffic to online stores and tour date pages!

I’ve been leaning on the “link in bio” strategy since November (since “Tweets with a link garner 28.76% less reach” says Buffer), to drive traffic from socials to my various projects (see my Linktree here), just like I hope you’re testing out. Hit me up if you have questions or ideas (seth@socialmediaescape.club).

You can say “LINK IN BIO,” or you can do something like this (watch all the way through the end, it’s so well done):

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A post shared by Connor Price (@connorprice)

Am I saying you have to make videos just like this? No.
Do you you have to make dance videos? No.
Do you have to point at words? No.

Do you have to do something?

Yes.

There’s a whole new year ahead of us; are we really going to keep “doing socials” like we’ve always done, and expect improved results?

Making fancy videos like above is hard work.
Saying “watch our video” with a link is light work.

We have to find that sweet spot that works for us that will get fans to click a link and subscribe to our email list, or pre-order our latest product.

But, maybe you don’t have to do all the work.

I was chatting about the importance of artists’ telling their stories with Steve Tom Sawyer the other day, about making video clips in the studio, on the road, while shooting a music video.

And Steve raised a great point – why should the artists always have to do that?

He’s right.

Find someone on your same level, trying to put together a body of work, and build something together. There’s a lot of talented A/V people out there, hustling and doing the work.

So in the new year, ask for help. Partner up. Build a team.

Work with good people on good projects and good things can happen.

That said, wanna talk? seth@socialmediaescape.club