Category: InternetCategory: Internet
From Yancey Strickler’s post, “The internet is dying on the outside but growing on the inside.”
Hidden transcripts are drafted, revised, and designed in dark forests safe from outside view. Public channels are where dominant powers dictate and control narratives. As authoritarian regimes around the world increase their monitoring and persecution of those who do not fall in line with the dominant story, these spaces and their security become increasingly important.
This is the second time this week I’ve referenced this quote from the South Central Run Club: “Instead of broadcasting our runs and making us vulnerable to surveillance, we stopped putting it on Instagram to make people feel safer to come and hang out.”
Social media has us believe we must broadcast everything, announce our every movement. Of course they encourage this, as more posts equal more ad impressions, more “time on site.”
Rip up the script; engage outside of public view, in safe places, in supportive communities, and watch your creative orbit expand into something more real.

Saw this at the bottom of The Oatmeal’s very excellent post “A Cartoonist’s Review of AI Art.“
As I said back in 2023, “stop telling fans to follow you on platforms that are built to limit your ability to reach them.”
If you (or the Oatmeal) drive 1,000 people to Instagram and they all follow you, you’ll be lucky if 100 of those people see your next post.
So why not just focus on getting 100 new email subscribers? That’s a lot easier than trying to update several other platforms just so 90% of your followers won’t see your latest stuff.
Amelia Hruby of the Off The Grid podcast was our guest on a recent Escape Pod Zoom call, which is 1/3 interview, then 2/3 community Q&A, and that’s where this question comes from, and I think apples to many art forms aside from podcasting!
How did you build the audience for your podcast without social media?
“The way I have built the audience for my podcast has largely been relational. Even in Season 1, I had on guests, and they liked the show, and they told more people about the show, and those people told more people about the show.’
This is definitely a variation of “getting awareness off our plate,” in that maybe we don’t need to spend so much time making social media assets or posting on several platforms to get the word out. This way we’re spending our efforts making great work that people want to be a part of, rather than trying to post our way to greatness.
It’s also important that your podcast has a focus, as Amelia explains:
“I work on a lot of podcasts, and what I will say with so much love to everyone who has a podcast is that most don’t have a clear premise, and they don’t really know why people should listen. Many people make a podcast because they want to make a podcast, which is beautiful. But people listen to a podcast because it’s giving them something—entertainment, education, or in my case, a space for people who don’t want to be on social media but still want to make money from their art. They stay because they feel so seen.”
Get on Amelia’s waitlist to be notified when her new book “Your Attention is Sacred Except on Social Media” is available for pre-order!
I get asked this a lot via my Email Guidance offering, with a few variations:
I do multiple things, how do I bring them all together on my website?
This always reminds me of Seth Godin’s blog.
Everyday there’s a new post. On occaion Seth is working on something new – a new book, and event, something else.
And he writes about it, and links to it.
Yes, there’s a sidebar. But the main event is that big block of text that starts at the top with a headline.
That says “we’re starting here today. Come along for the ride.”
It’s not for everybody, and that’s the point. Your blog is the cool band shirt you wear on the first day of school, or the book you read on the subway, or the shade of green you dye your hair.
You’re not for everyone, but the people that can pick up on those cues? Those are your people.
“You need to trust your members enough to know they can decide what’s best for themselves. You’re not a mommy or a daddy—you’re an adult community leader.”
Wise words from my talk with Kristen Tweedale on how she runs community, but it applies to how you put your work out there, too.
Get people to your site, give them a starting point, and get out of the way.
I got to talk with Frederick Woodruff (Woodruff, The Dahmer Diaries, and Fame Whores) about how he started working on the web, running his popular Woodruff astrology newsletter, writing a book, his podcast, and so much more. Enjoy!

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