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Social media rotted our brains on the instant gratification racket.

“I accept defeat,” I repeat after HINDZ from a recent video, “I accept that billion-dollar corporations have invested millions and millions of millions into the psychology and understanding how to keep me on these devices on their platforms, and it works.”

It’s not enough that social media gobbles up our attention – it tricks us into thinking we’re nothing without them.

This is made worse because “the creative status quo has made us lonely content machines.”

We are isolated, working on projects alone in our studios and rooms. We are so in our own heads that when we get together to discuss these things, we can cry.

We’re trying to figure this out on our own, thinking we’ll beat the tech bros with better-crafted hashtags, disguising our “link in bio” text, or churning out vertical videos to appease the social media overlords.

If we just read one more social media strategy guide, or watch more one more YouTube video then we’ll crack the code.

No, thanks.

I’d rather spend my time in deeper connection with good people.

• As writers, we can work with our photographer friends (like Patrick Fellows did here). Or the photographer Wesley Verhoeve who will make black and white landscape photos for “painter Brie Noel Taylor to paint over in color.”
• Cody Cook-Parrott hosts FLEXIBLE OFFICE, where amazing creative people gather on a video call to work on their projects together.
• Carolyn Yoo made a zine called ‘How to keep your hobby from becoming a job’, and it’s brought a bunch of people together in the comment section and in real life – I handed a copy to my creative friend, and she loved it!

Start reaching out to fellow zine writers, artists, photographers, and designers – get on a phone call, plan a meetup, gather in secret in remote parks, commandeer several tables at the local Denny’s, plan your own hyper-niche flea market, write a short skit.

These are things made outside of isolation.

Spending more time around creative people will do us more good than if we just sit on our hands and wait to be saved by the next tech-bro platform to deliver us a new magical marketing machine.

Are we so powerless to change the current situation that we sit back and hope somebody else fixes everything?

And then what? That person will sell the company to a Nabisco+Tide hedge fund subsidiary, and we’ll be back where we started.

Maybe centralized kingdoms of power and influence aren’t the answer.

The answer is other people, community, and the exchange of ideas away from the supposed champions of our “creator economy,” which was here long before the silicon valley dorks showed up.

You can wait for things to change, but reaching your fans on social media will never get any easier. NEVER. I’ve been saying this since 2021.

Find some other weirdos, form your own band of misfits and start having the conversation about living in a post-social media world, ‘cuz baby it’s coming.

I said previously that maybe tossing promotional paper airplanes into the cyclone of digital content isn’t the best use of our time.

Building our work or brand on rented property is risky business, and for years we’ve been uploading content for free on social media platforms.

Then I heard Michelle Warner say recently to take 85% of the things we make “off your platform” and redistribute it in other places (listen here).

“Whether it’s a group of five people or landing some media, just get it off your platform so people don’t have to find you there.”

The answer was right there the whole time, in front of my dumb face.

“That’s where I break marketing into three stages; awareness, engagement, sales. People need to know you exist, then they need to like you, then they need to buy something from you.”

The podcast host, Jay Acunzo, then suggests that we parse out some of our content in ways that I feel like a lot of us have seen or have done in the past, like appearing on a podcast or seeing artists contribute to blogs or host classes.

As Michelle says, and I think this is the money quote, is to “get awareness off your plate and onto other platforms.”

Platforms in this case don’t have to be Instagram or TikTok, but trusted outlets with an established audience. Or a writer or artist you admire.

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My first few Threads on Substack were duds, but then I flipped them upside down.

1. Make something that’ll be interesting for my readers
2. Reach out to smart people and ask them to drop a comment
3. Share the Thread post and quotes in future posts

Not only is it a fun way to get input from your friends, but it’s great for learning about your readers (and way more fun that surveys).

I made this thread, “Where are you at with social media?” and linked it from my Welcome Email.

If you’re already posting images on Instagram, you’re sitting on newsletter material whether you realize it or not. Reusing those images in email isn’t cheating or lazy, t’s just practical, and like I say, most people never see your social media posts anyway.

My buddy Bill sent me this email from Tapehead City that did this perfectly: the same cassette photos from Instagram, dropped straight into an email, with no fuss or overthinking.

The small additions matter, too. Don’t just copy and paste. Add a sentence, a bit of context, an extra detail. The feed gets the quick bits; the newsletter gets the extended version. Same work, more mileage, and a better payoff for the people who actually signed up. This is how email quietly becomes the main event instead of an afterthought.

Social media is a job we never signed up for, demands our full attention, and nags us to come in our day off.

We’re spinning our wheels on an unending feed of noise, where reaching and growing our fanbase will never get any easier.

Think about it – you’re competing with brands and outlets that employ teams with writers, designers, video editors, and people who handle JUST THE COMMENTS.

These teams are also updating and managing several social media platforms—places where you don’t even exist if you don’t have an account.

I’m saying this is a crappy job.

Maybe tossing promotional paper airplanes into the cyclone of digital content isn’t the best use of our time.

The social media platforms will continue to make it harder for you.

That’s their job.

Every day they place the proverbial cheese just a little bit further and further away, letting you think that if you post a little more often, using varying media types, then maybe you’ll get 10 more followers or seven likes.

Like I said, some brands, bands, and people make it their job to be on all the social media platforms.

So when you choose (let’s say) Instagram, you’re supposedly limiting yourself from millions of other potential new fans.

If you’re “only” on Instagram and wondering how you’ll ever “grow your audience” without it, well, how will you grow without being on TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, YouTube?

It’s like Ricky Gervais arguing the existence of God with Stephen Colbert.

There are 3,000 Gods, and Colbert believes in one.

There are multiple social media networks, and you believe in Instagram.

Ricky Gervais believes in just one less.

I believe in a website and an email list.

If you believe that social media is required, but you only “believe” in one platform, you’ve very close to “not being on social media” already, as you’re leaving out millions of potential new fans that could experience your work for the first time.

Not everyone is on Instagram. Lots of people left Facebook. Twitter has been a dumpster fire for quite some time.

But every smartphone comes with an email app installed.

Every smartphone comes with a web browser.

I leave you with this: your work should be so good that fans share it willingly on their social media networks.

Because that’s the nature of “getting the word out” – you make great work, and show it to your friends.

If it’s good enough, they tell their friends about it, and now you don’t even need to be on TikTok because someone else makes a clip talking about your work, which now brings you in front of a new audience.

But that requires making great work.

That’s your job.

Your job is making great work that people will talk about.